The Apostle James describes a Christian using God’s Spirit as “peaceable, gentle, and easy to be entreated” (KJV) or “willing to yield to reason” (Amplified Version) or “reasonable” (James 3:17, NASV). Such persons will not erupt in indignation or anger if someone questions their actions or decisions. They will not be so convinced that their opinions or actions are right and therefore ignore advice and counsel from others.
Solomon made a similar observation that “The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but he who heeds counsel is wise” (Proverbs 12:15). Solomon also repeatedly stressed the value of being receptive to counsel (Proverbs 19:20, 27; 22:17).
Paul told Timothy that real Christians are “temperate [self-controlled]... gentle, not quarrelsome” (1 Timothy 3:2-3). A truly humble Christian will be approachable, have a teachable attitude that is open to instruction, suggestions and correction and able to work smoothly with others. This is a goal we can all strive to achieve.
