The Scriptures state that Christians are called to become kings and priests—civil and religious leaders—in the coming Kingdom of God. Yet, today, leaders often feel they must exert control over others to show who is in charge!
Jesus said this human tendency to “lord it over” others will not be tolerated in the Kingdom (Matthew 20:25-28).
God is looking for individuals who desire to serve others, and who are able to lead in a gentle—but not weak—manner. David records how God dealt gently with him (Psalm 18:35).
Solomon states that patience and gentle words can persuade difficult people (Proverbs 25:15).
The Apostle Paul mentions that instead of making demands and issuing orders, he dealt gently with brethren (1 Thessalonians 2:6-7). Paul also urged Christians to be humble, gentle and patient when dealing with others (Ephesians 4:1-2).
Bible prophecies indicate that while Jesus Christ will return and rule with a “strong hand,” He will gather His flock as a shepherd and “gently lead those who are with young” (Isaiah 40:10-11).
Anyone who hopes to lead in the Kingdom of God needs to remember that gentleness is a trait of real Godly leaders.